Vaingloriously Not in the Same Vein


Emma Sulkowicz is on the cover of this month’s New York Magazine and that is the coolest thing wow

DUUUUDE this is a huge fucking deal honestly



Emma Sulkowicz is on the cover of this month’s New York Magazine and that is the coolest thing wow

DUUUUDE this is a huge fucking deal honestly

I don't understand the point of view from anti-sj, anti-feminist etc it's like they look for the smallest reason not to be supporters.
tw: Domestic Violence

OK while it is super unfortunate that Hope Solo is currently facing domestic violence charges, I’d really like people to stop fucking using her case as a way to claim that the whole Ray Rice situation is misandry because 

A) She’s pleading not guilty which means that somehow she’s got enough to prove her case. THere’s no fucking way her lawyer would let her otherwise because she’s that public of a figure.  You either settle or plea bargain if there’s any fucking doubt. 

B) there is no video of the incident

C) Ray Rice was caught on video knocking his girl out against a metal elevator wall.

D) Hope Solo was charged with Domestic Violence in the FOURTH DEGREE.

So we can talk about Hope Solo’s case and the fact that she’s not facing career repercussions, or we can talk about the fact that none of y’all cared or knew who the fuck she was until you were desperately searching for an excuse to bitch about how Ray Rice doesn’t deserve any repercussions from the shit he pulled. Either way, domestic violence is not your platform to shit on women in any way. And Hope Solo definitely probably fucked up in some way…but the proof against her is not nearly as good as the proof against Ray Rice. And if we’re really gonna have this conversation about comparing two very disparate cases of domestic violence, we’re also going to have to point out the fact that Hope Solo’s family members suffered scratches on their arms and also appeared to be intoxicated as well (And Hope Solo claims she was actually partially injured in the incident as well), and Ray Rice nearly killed a woman.


Ron and Harry’s imaginary predictions for their Star charts in Divination which actually happen during their fourth year. - Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (Page 196)

want to start circling this around again, because I am still amazed by the fact that I managed to see this



More people are concerned with why women stay in abusive relationships than why men are abusing women

real talk

because as a society we are fascinated with the idea of a woman “wanting it” and “asking for it” but we don’t think twice about the idea of a man hitting a woman. To us, it’s normal. It’s not unusual.

Resources for Male Survivors


I posted last week asking people if they knew of some good resources for male victims of sexual assault. Here is the list people came up with:

Thanks everyone.


Sarcasm level 10



It’s Ladies’ Night at the House of Mouse!

This joke when over my head as a kid.





cultural appropriation is putting fireflies in a jar

and letting them light up your bedroom

as you drift off to sleep.

and when you wake up all the lights have flickered out

but only when you’re older do you realize

you slowly suffocated them so

that you could enjoy their glow.

that just knocked the breath from me




Young Hollywood 2014: The New Wave of Tinseltown’s Brightest Stars Is Right This Way: Quvenzhané Wallis, Keke Palmer and Jaden Smith

Teen Vogue October 2014

They all look amazing.

Oh wow